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Since
then:
Let me digress a bit to tell
you how I ended up at ASIJ in the first place. In
1941, my father, then, a budding actor in Japanese
Theater, and a reluctant soldier in the Pacific
War came home injured. During his brief R&R,
he produced me and had his last visit with his
family. He was sent back to the front line in
Southeast Asia and killed in Burma. I only have
one picture of him since everything we had was
destroyed during long fire bombings of Tokyo. When
I was ten, my mother married my stepfather, a “Gaijin”
from California. He worked as an artist for Tokyo
office of J. Walter Thompson Co., an advertising
company.
One day in late 1950’s, my
stepfather made an announcement that we were going
to the U.S. in a few years. Aki and I are going to
colleges in America! So, we went through a crash
course in English at Nishimachi School for a year,
then on to ASIJ. My first three months at ASIJ
were a blur. I didn’t understand what anybody
was saying too clearly. But thanks to ASIJ and all
of you folks, things started to click little at a
time, and by the senior year I was ready for
college in the US.
Aki was already at Cal
Berkeley, but since I dropped out of Spooner’s
physics class, I couldn’t get into Berkeley.
That was just as well in retrospect, since I was
not cut out to be a Cal student. Cal Poly, San
Luis Obispo, CA was as alien as any place in the
USA at the time, not knowing I would eventually
spend total of over 35 years as a student and as a
chemist.
As I was graduating from Cal
Poly in 1966, Uncle Sam was waiting to snag me. I
don’t know how many of you were able to dodge
the draft, but I surely couldn’t and got drafted
into the US Army. I spent two months at Fort
Bliss, Texas for basic training in the middle of
summer, and I can attest to you that there is no
bliss anywhere within 50 miles of Fort Bliss. My
thinking at that point was that things were not
going to get any better…It might get worse, like
getting my butt shipped to Nam. I heard horror
stories about Nam, especially from Asian GI’s,
that they literally got shot at from both sides!
But things didn’t get worse;
they actually started to look good after the basic
training. I was ordered to go to the U.S. Army
Natick Laboratories in Natick, Mass. No one in the
entire Fort Bliss Headquarters’ office had ever
heard of this place. But that was fine with me. I
wanted to go as far away as possible from Nam. Not
only did Natick Labs keep me away from combat
actions in Nam; it provided me with valuable
experience as a research biochemist. It dawned on
me just then, how ironic it would have been if I
was sent to the Southeast Asia to fight yet
another war and get killed near where my father
died.
In the second year at Natick, I
met a local girl, a civilian working at the Labs,
and we eventually decided to get married. She was
a student at Boston University, taking a break
from her school for a year. She eventually
finished her degree from State University at
Framingham. The first two years were like a dream
as we spent lots of time outdoors, skiing all over
New England in winter and camping and playing
tennis during the rest of the year. After my Army
stint, I got a job as a food microbiologist/food
technologist at Best Food Research Center at
Waltham, MA, and we bought our first house with
one acre of pine grove in Hudson, MA. The research
facility moved to Union, New Jersey and we
followed to New Jersey. After my son, Daryl, was
born (1971), I started thinking about being back
in California where the rest of my family was. I
made a phone call to my alma mater and talked to
the Head of the Biology Department; he remembered
me and offered me a job over the phone. That was
1973. It was meant to be a transitional job until
I found a better job down in the LA area, but here
I am still here.
I will retire within the next
two years, more likely in a year, depending on
whether I want to spend more time surfing or going
to work. During those twenty-eight years here in
San Luis Obispo, CA, my daughter, Michelle, was
born (1974), and several years later, my wife and
I got a divorce. I worked and raised my two kids
by myself for a few years until I met my present
wife, Cathy. We got married in 1982. My third
child, Andrew, was born in 1985. Five of us have
had a nice life together doing what families do
with growing kids.
Right now Daryl, a college grad
with a degree in MIS, is married and lives near my
house. Michelle is going to school in CT. She is
going to be a physician’s assistant. Andrew is a
sophomore in high school, with an ambition to
become a lawyer when he grows up. My spare time?
You’ll find me playing tennis, racquetball,
kayaking, biking, or hiking, and oh, my latest
passion…surfing. |