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What, 40 years since we left ASIJ? You can't be serious!
Hello, people. It's hard to tell one's life story to classmates who were very much a part of your character formation, and yet from whom you have been separated for so many years.
The U.S. was very different for me; the time flow was different; the pacing was different; people's interests were different; and they treated each other so very differently. This was overwhelming. I became so shy that I would climb aboard a bus, and talk to the bus driver in order to practice how to converse in this new land.
Time passed. I grew older. Gradually, my family filtered over. What a relief! A friend of Bobbie's (my wonderful middle sister, but then I feel all my family is wonderful!), introduced me to a "traditional" man. Ha! He turned out to be very interesting, very bright, a self-actualized person. I was very fortunate. Then, very sad; my husband died.
During this time, I was part of the Los Angeles school system. While
working with 3rd-6th graders, my interest initially focused upon learning problems; then art and language; then science, science, science; and how people learn. You might ask: "What about dancing, hiking, friends and family, and changing-the-world movements?" Well, if you are familiar with the Los Angeles school system, you know that effort and time pressures have increased enough to disrupt normality. So, I miss those in my immediate life with which I want to spend more time. I also miss those classmates and friends like Sue Riess, and Chuck, and Mitch, who are gone.
I'm looking forward to October with delight.
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